Finally. An AI That Actually Gets Open Relationships.
The first conversation coach built specifically for Feeld, ethical non-monogamy, and the lifestyle community. No judgment. No generic pickup lines. Just smart messaging help that understands your world.
Generic dating AI doesn't work for us.
You've tried ChatGPT. Maybe even Rizz. And every time, you get:
You need messaging help that speaks your language.
Built by the community. For the community.
Poise understands:
Feeld Fluency
From pings to desires, unicorn etiquette to couple messaging - we actually know how Feeld works.
ENM Communication
Whether you're poly, open, swinging, or exploring - get help navigating disclosure, boundaries, and the conversations that matter.
Authentic Over Performative
No manipulative "rizz." Just help expressing what you actually want to say - clearly, confidently, and respectfully.
Discretion First
All processing happens on your device. Your conversations, desires, and matches never touch our servers. Period.
For the conversations that actually matter
For Singles on Feeld
- Craft openers that show you understand ENM culture
- Navigate messaging with couples without the awkwardness
- Communicate your relationship structure clearly
For Couples
- Write "we" messages that don't sound creepy
- Avoid the unicorn hunter reputation
- Coordinate your approach with linked profiles
For the Lifestyle Community
- Message on SDC, Kasidie, or lifestyle apps with confidence
- Discuss desires directly without being crude
- Navigate the unique etiquette of swinger spaces
For Anyone in Open Relationships
- Scripts for disclosing ENM on vanilla apps
- Help with the "how does that work?" conversation
- Communicate boundaries and expectations clearly
Made for people like you
"I've been on Feeld for two years and always struggled with openers. Poise actually understands the vibe - it doesn't suggest generic pickup lines, it helps me reference their desires and interests in a way that feels natural."
Morgan
31 · Poly, Bay Area
Smart help. Zero judgment.
Tell us the context
What app, who you're messaging, what you want to say
Get tailored suggestions
Options that fit ENM culture, your style, and the situation
Send with confidence
Copy, customize if needed, and start conversations that actually go somewhere
Your secrets stay yours
We built Poise for a community where discretion isn't optional - it's everything.
The lifestyle community trusts Poise because we engineered privacy in from day one.
Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.
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- Priority responses
- History sync
Download free and upgrade anytime in-app. All purchases handled securely through the App Store.
Ready to message with confidence?
You've spent enough time staring at blank message fields, second-guessing yourself, or getting advice from AI that doesn't understand your world. Poise was built for Feeld. For ENM. For the lifestyle community. For you.